I about wanted to drive my car off of a cliff and I wallowed for a few days hardcore, miserable and pathetic. "Putter" and I had a great relationship: fun, sexy and so much laughter... never a problem in sight. The breakup was much worse than losing my job. I reacted like any girl would -- I had a Threesome... a threesome with Ben & Jerry that is.
I also found this great book, The Daring Female's Guide to Ecstatic Living: 30 Dares for a More Gutsy and Fulfilling Life Natasha Kogan. It inspired me that I wasn't going to make resolutions this year, I was going to DARE myself instead to do new things.
Note: I haven't read the book yet, I wanted to keep an open mind before I made my list. After I wrote this, I went to my bookstore and couldn't find it on the shelf. This gave me the perfect excuse to talk to the hot salesperson at my bookstore that I've been checking out... ;)
- be the best version of me with or without a man
- don't let a man define me
The Single Mom