When I confronted him about it, he told me she was lying and that it was probably a wrong number. The next morning, I had a text from her, "Why did you tell him, you BITCH". This told me he was obviously lying to me. She and I then compare similar stories of his lies, she also tells me he is seeing a third woman. We decide to align forces against him. He continued lying to me, sent me an emotional email promising me his love and sending me a song. After an emotional hour or so, I got a text from the "Mystery Texter". The bastard sent both of us the same song! I told "The Third Woman" and she didn't completely believe me but we keep talking...
I had her attention and I told her that he had sent the same song last night to the Mystery Texter and me with emotional emails. The tone of her voice changed and she sounded really upset. I heard her say something to a coworker in the background like, “I’ll be right there.” She came back on the phone and told me she had to get back to work. Although I knew she did truly have to get to work, I wondered if she was using it a little to also remove herself from this upsetting conversation. It truly wasn’t my concern, I told her what I needed to and it was up to her to believe it or not.
She asked if I was still talking to him and I told her that I was. I told her about all the things I’d found out about him online and she was the most disturbed about the dating site. She couldn’t believe that he was still active on it. Most days, he worked from her house remotely, so as soon as she’d go to work he would log onto the site.
She wanted to confront him about the dating site, but we laughingly said, “Wouldn’t it be funny to create a fake profile and see if he would talk to us, just to see what he would say? Ya, that would be funny, wouldn’t it…”
Next time... we make a plan...
The Single Mom